[iOS] Correctly attach Native gesture

[m-bert]

Description

Native gesture was incorrectly attached when underlying view was UIControl. This PR aims to fix this. It also changes hostDetectorTag to hostDetectorView, which simplifies viewForEvents logic.

Test plan

Tested on the following code:

import { StyleSheet } from 'react-native';
import {
  GestureDetector,
  GestureHandlerRootView,
  PureNativeButton,
  useNative,
} from 'react-native-gesture-handler';

const Button = ({ nativeGestureProperties }: any) => {
  const native = useNative(nativeGestureProperties);

  return (
    <GestureDetector gesture={native}>
      <PureNativeButton
        style={{ width: 100, height: 20, backgroundColor: 'green' }}
      />
    </GestureDetector>
  );
};

export default function App() {
  return (
    <GestureHandlerRootView style={styles.container}>
      <Button
        nativeGestureProperties={{
          onEnd: () => {
            console.log('end');
          },
          disableReanimated: true,
        }}
      />
    </GestureHandlerRootView>
  );
}

const styles = StyleSheet.create({
  container: {
    flex: 1,
    justifyContent: 'space-around',
    alignItems: 'center',
  },
});

[m-bert]

As discussed offline, I've changed this approach. Let me know what you think (cc @j-piasecki, @akwasniewski)