Auto merge of rust-lang#79521 - ssomers:btree_cleanup_2, r=Mark-Simulacrum

BTreeMap: relax the explicit borrow rule to make code shorter and safer

Expressions like `.reborrow_mut().into_len_mut()` are annoyingly long, and kind of dangerous for the reason `reborrow_mut()` is unsafe. By relaxing the single rule, we no longer have to make an exception for functions with a `borrow` name and functions like `as_leaf_mut`. This is largely restoring the declaration style of the btree::node API about a year ago, but with more explanation and consistency.

r? `@Mark-Simulacrum`

Author: bors

alloc/src/collections/btree/map.rs

@@ -248,7 +248,7 @@ where
         let (map, dormant_map) = DormantMutRef::new(self);
         let root_node = Self::ensure_is_owned(&mut map.root).borrow_mut();
         match search::search_tree::<marker::Mut<'_>, K, (), K>(root_node, &key) {
-            Found(handle) => Some(mem::replace(handle.into_key_mut(), key)),
+            Found(mut kv) => Some(mem::replace(kv.key_mut(), key)),
             GoDown(handle) => {
                 VacantEntry { key, handle, dormant_map, _marker: PhantomData }.insert(());
                 None