Support react-native 0.81 (#3607)

## Description

This PR adds support for `react-native` 0.81

## Status

- ### 0.81.0-rc.5 ✅ 
- 0.81.0-rc.4 🤯  
- 0.81.0-rc.3 ✅ 
- 0.81.0-rc.2 ✅ 
- 0.81.0-rc.1 ✅ 
- 0.81.0-rc.0 ✅ 

## Test plan

Tested that `basic-example` builds and works correctly.

Author: m-bert

apps/basic-example/android/build.gradle

@@ -1,9 +1,9 @@
 buildscript {
     ext {
-        buildToolsVersion = "35.0.0"
+        buildToolsVersion = "36.0.0"
         minSdkVersion = 24
-        compileSdkVersion = 35
-        targetSdkVersion = 35
+        compileSdkVersion = 36
+        targetSdkVersion = 36
         ndkVersion = "27.1.12297006"
         kotlinVersion = "2.1.20"
         isGHExampleApp = true

apps/basic-example/android/gradle.properties

@@ -37,3 +37,8 @@ newArchEnabled=true
 # Use this property to enable or disable the Hermes JS engine.
 # If set to false, you will be using JSC instead.
 hermesEnabled=true
+
+# Use this property to enable edge-to-edge display support.
+# This allows your app to draw behind system bars for an immersive UI.
+# Note: Only works with ReactActivity and should not be used with custom Activity.
+edgeToEdgeEnabled=false

apps/basic-example/android/gradle/wrapper/gradle-wrapper.properties

@@ -1,6 +1,6 @@
 distributionBase=GRADLE_USER_HOME
 distributionPath=wrapper/dists
-distributionUrl=https\://services.gradle.org/distributions/gradle-8.14.1-bin.zip
+distributionUrl=https\://services.gradle.org/distributions/gradle-8.14.3-bin.zip
 networkTimeout=10000
 validateDistributionUrl=true
 zipStoreBase=GRADLE_USER_HOME