DOC: Update docs with the use of meson instead of setup.py (#57917)

Author: DeaMariaLeon

doc/source/development/maintaining.rst

@@ -151,15 +151,15 @@ and then run::
     git bisect start
     git bisect good v1.4.0
     git bisect bad v1.5.0
-    git bisect run bash -c "python setup.py build_ext -j 4; python t.py"
+    git bisect run bash -c "python -m pip install -ve . --no-build-isolation --config-settings editable-verbose=true; python t.py"
 
 This finds the first commit that changed the behavior. The C extensions have to be
 rebuilt at every step, so the search can take a while.
 
 Exit bisect and rebuild the current version::
 
     git bisect reset
-    python setup.py build_ext -j 4
+    python -m pip install -ve . --no-build-isolation --config-settings editable-verbose=true
 
 Report your findings under the corresponding issue and ping the commit author to get
 their input.

pandas/__init__.py

@@ -28,7 +28,8 @@
     raise ImportError(
         f"C extension: {_module} not built. If you want to import "
         "pandas from the source directory, you may need to run "
-        "'python setup.py build_ext' to build the C extensions first."
+        "'python -m pip install -ve . --no-build-isolation --config-settings "
+        "editable-verbose=true' to build the C extensions first."
     ) from _err
 
 from pandas._config import (