Update gtk-dev-guide.md: Modernize references and add GTK4 documentation (#5)

Update gtk-dev-guide.md: Replace Bugzilla and wiki references with GitHub
Add build verification section to gtk-dev-guide.md
Update gtk-dev-guide.md: Use local images instead of wiki.eclipse.org links

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